How to Access Mail
gay.com Mail allows you to send mail messages to other members within the
gay.com network. It's a great alternative to IM when you want to leave a message for a member who's gone offline. Just keep in mind there are no forwarding or attachment capabilities.
There are two ways to access gay.com Mail:

Select the "Mail" link at the top of your screen to go to your inbox. You can also see how many new mail messages you have here. Refresh the page to update.

Or select the "My Mail" tab from the My Profile section as shown here.
From within Mail, you can send and receive messages to and from all other members of gay.com. Basic members can send up to 5 messages a day. Premium members can to send as many messages as they want.

To compose a new mail, find the member you want to send a mail to first, then click "Send Mail" from the profile, mini-profile or search result.